Rich Man vs Not-So-Rich Man?
I started seeing two wealthy older men at once (coincidentally met them within weeks of one another). They are both nice and purely for fun (I don’t have any intention of settling down with either, and neither with me), but I am a one-man girl.
Now, one of them is very rich, spoils me really well (as in he’s let me blow £1000s with his credit card), but he is less fun. The other earns less in comparison, spoils me to a lesser extent (as in probably pops the odd bottle of Crystal and purchases a few designer pieces for me) but he’s more fun to be around. Neither of them are ever around much. I want to choose one and let go of the other but am having a tough time deciding which. I like them both, but don’t plan on staying with either for the long term (it’s just a bit of fun, both of them are aware of that so I’m not going to break any hearts). I’m torn between getting pampered for as long as the money flows vs just having a good time with comparatively less spoiling in tow. I’ve been trying to decide for almost a week now. Which one should I choose?
i think theres nothing wrong with what youre doing. you arent deceiving anyone or committing some crime against morality. you have let them know of your intentions and that youre not in a place in your life to settle down. it doesnt sound like youre having sex with either of them so that prostitute thing is irrelevant. youre a grown woman who has made her intentions clear and trying to decide which man to choose. nothing wrong with that and it doesnt reflect any improper way of life on your part to anyone unless theyre self righteous conservatives.
people always seem to find it hard to believe that a girl just wants to spend time with people and doesnt want to marry them! its ridiculous. people just cant stand to see woman enjoying herself. youre not going to love every guy youre in a relationship with and youre not going to have a future with all of them either. jesus people what century is this? lol okay im done with the rant.
just think about what you want in your life right now? do you want a good time or nice things? there are pros and cons to each.
the wealthy man can probably expand your world and experiences. the broke dude can make you laugh and give you a great time.you pick.
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since you’re not very serious with either of them, then it’s numero uno for sure.(1)
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Wow. I don’t approve, but it’s your life…
The wealthier one. Spend time with friends if you want to have fun.
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Who’s better in bed?! Sleep with them both and whoever is better that’s the one you pick!
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This question with all the money spending etc just makes you sound like a prostitute, hanging out with this guy and having sex with him for money and objects.
You shouldn’t choose either, and maybe start thinking about what you are doing with your life.
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don’t be in a relationship if ur not in love. tell them both u want just frineds and then u can keep them both!
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you need to choose the one that you have the most fun with and the one you get along with better.
personaly i would choose the not-so-rich guy cause they dont buy your love.
that is what i think the rich guy is doing but i am not him and i wouldent know for sure.
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Women seem to always have a hard time in this situation, and as such it seems necessity to drag it along for a while until you make up your mind, right?
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umm wow…if its intended to be that materialistic…then i guess u should go for the rich man…i mean…the other one is fun but doesnt have money to feed ur needs ya?…so hes a looser..throw him away…u must have used him enough right?…now its the 1000 sterling man whos gonna make ur time worth while…eat him off…go…shoo!
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Have them fight to the death. Winner gets you.
Loser…well, dies.
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Amusement.
Well i think you should stay with the one with less money that you say you have more fun with, because material things are just material things they will eventually tear, break get lost what have you, but the fun in your life you will always remember that forever it will be with you for the rest of your life. So i say go for the not so rich guy. :p
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Which one do you think you’ll be able to kinda get away from now but you’ll be able to call him down the line when your single again?? i would just go with that..then you’ll get both just one at a time:) you get your cake and eat it too!
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Don’t pick yet, continue to get to know both of them first because friends before lovers is important… after that pick the one you vibe more with and not the riches one!
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hmmm… prostitute withought the title. Well you are there for the money so go for the richer guy. Business is business.
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I agree, that’s weird. I mean- I date people for fun, but I don’t use them or let them pay for me if I know I don’t like them, I just go out on dates maybe make out with them a couple of times. You should stop letting people do that kind of stuff for you and be a little more responsible.
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If you’re just messing around might as well make your time more worth while. Go for the wealthier one.
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I’d go for the one with the less money because it’s sounds like you have more fun with the other…but you shouldn’t go out with someone b/c of their social status…do it bassed on personality
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I know what would cheer me up. Some of my world famous ham and banana rolls.
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I think a gold digger is a gold digger know matter what.
And if you had any respect for your self you would be
dating a guy you might have a future with instead of
being with a guy because he has money. someone
will get hurt and it will probably be you. material thing
just show how shallow you are not the guys. move on
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i think theres nothing wrong with what youre doing. you arent deceiving anyone or committing some crime against morality. you have let them know of your intentions and that youre not in a place in your life to settle down. it doesnt sound like youre having sex with either of them so that prostitute thing is irrelevant. youre a grown woman who has made her intentions clear and trying to decide which man to choose. nothing wrong with that and it doesnt reflect any improper way of life on your part to anyone unless theyre self righteous conservatives.
people always seem to find it hard to believe that a girl just wants to spend time with people and doesnt want to marry them! its ridiculous. people just cant stand to see woman enjoying herself. youre not going to love every guy youre in a relationship with and youre not going to have a future with all of them either. jesus people what century is this? lol okay im done with the rant.
just think about what you want in your life right now? do you want a good time or nice things? there are pros and cons to each.
the wealthy man can probably expand your world and experiences. the broke dude can make you laugh and give you a great time.you pick.
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